Am i wrong?
OK my boyfriend is 19 n i'm 20 and were having twins and we just broke up, so everytime we argue his like **** u and don't ever call me again and i dont wanna c the kids, then he'll call back and be like i was just mad, and he's always saying i start all the arguments but we both think its the other. First of all this doesnt matter but just for a little history of our lives i am an african american female, he is from somalia/yemen, his mom is somalian, his uncle's wife is white(25yrs). so now that i filled u guys in his mom says that all black girls are ghetto n they either fake being pregnant/ they do it on purpose, so his mom says that i am a faker/ liar about everything i've tried everything to prove myself n they think i got other ppl pic (his mom lives in canada we live in ohio) his uncle met me and doesnt like me for no reason and my b/f goes n tells his uncles wife our business n she said doesnt like black girls am i wrong for not gonna let his family c the babies? they hate me!
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I wouldn't let them see the kids either hun. lol, sounds like they don't want anything to do with you, so I guess that would mean the kids as well. If they hate you for no reason and are adamant in trying to convince their son not to like you too, there's no telling what kind of stuff they will tell your children. I say keep the kids from them until they come around (if ever), and start behaving like mature adults.
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damn, drama. personally i don't think you are wrong because your children don't need to be around all that hatred and them feeding them all that negativety. but i do think this is what happens when two children are having babies (and i am not judging you) you two are still so young and to prove my point, he is always telling he don't want to see the kids, then he wants to see the kids---that is childish. then he runs to his "white" aunty and tells her everything. then she turns around and say she doesn't like black people---helloooo---does she realize that your children are going to be part black. immaturity has alot to play in this. not that you are immature, but it is him--playing games. you have two children to think about and you have to take control of the situation and put emotional safety of your children first. you don't want them around people that don't respect you. children can sense that their is a problem and you don't ever want your children in the middle of bullshi+
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See what happens when you have sex without being in a loving, caring, committed relationship with someone responsible... good luck.
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